Squirting is a release of fluid that occurs during sexual stimulation. It often coincides with orgasm and is very pleasurable.
Many women find that it helps to push down on their pelvic floor muscles in a manner similar to when they are urinating, to encourage squirting to happen. Stimulating the G spot and the Skene’s gland area can also induce squirting.
1. Get aroused.
Squirting involves a lot of pressure being applied to the upper internal wall of the vagina and stimulating the area often called the G-spot. It is often a precursor to orgasm, and it can feel very intense. This makes it an exciting prospect for many sex lovers, but it can also be an uncomfortable experience for others. So, it’s important to get fully aroused and ready before you go for it, especially if you are trying this on your own for the first time.
You’ll want to use a good quality lubricant, as this will help reduce friction. Make sure that the lubricant you choose is compatible with the material of your vibrator, as it can affect how well it performs. You’ll also want to check the manufacturer’s recommendations, as some lubricants may damage or ruin certain toys.
For most people, the best way to reach orgasm with a vibrator is through G-spot stimulation. This can be done by either inserting a dildo or bullet sex toy into the vagina and aiming it at the G-spot, or pushing hard on the area with your fingers, a partner’s hands, or the tip of a cock. The key is to find the type of stimulation that feels most intense, pleasurable, and satisfying. It can take some time to find what works for you, but with patience and practice, it’s possible to achieve an orgasm.
2. Prepare your bed.
While it may be tempting to immediately go for your clitoris, it’s best to start with the G-spot. That’s an area that swells when aroused, and most women who squirt do so because they’ve contacted that spot and experienced its pleasure. It’s also responsible for much of the lubrication of the vagina.
The G-spot is about a third of the way in, towards the front of the vaginal wall and feels like a spongy bump or ridge. You can find it by feeling around with your fingers and looking down. Then, get your partner to place their penis or fingers on top of that area and stimulate it with firm pressure. If they can do so while keeping their legs overhead, that’s even better, as it heightens the sensation.
A bullet sex toy or a curved vibrating dildo is ideal, but the most important part of this step is that you have a strong connection with your partner. That’s how they know whether to apply pressure and for how long.
Keep in mind that the whole goal of this process is not to get a squirt, but instead to enjoy the sensations and feel that arousal. It could take minutes, or hours, to reach an orgasm, so don’t rush it. And, if you do squirt, make sure to lay down a towel in case of leakage.
3. Get your toy ready.
Squirting is the release of fluid from the urethra during sexual arousal, often coinciding with orgasm. It can also be a pleasurable experience on its own. Interestingly, some women can squirt even without orgasm. Getting ready to squirt takes patience and practice, but it is possible with the right toy.
To encourage yourself to squirt, start by affixed the tip of your vibrator in the lower part of your vagina, just above your clit, and slowly drag it up towards your clitoris. Maintain a feather-light touch for as long as you can, and try to focus on your body. This will help you stay in the moment and not think about other things, such as your grocery list or that mountain of work to do.
Once you feel yourself starting to graze your G-spot (the area around the Skene’s glands), stay with it and rub it vigorously. This is one of the key ways to trigger a squirt, and it is especially effective if combined with bearing down in the same way that you would while peeing.
It’s also important to note that not all vibrators are created equal, so you want to find a strong, curved one that can deliver the type of stimulation required for squirting. You may also want to lay a towel down in case of leakage – it can be a bit messy!
4. Go for it.
Squirting can be a fun addition to masturbation, but it’s important to remember that it is not the end goal for many women. In fact, plenty of women have extremely satisfying sex lives and amazing orgasms without ever having the pleasure of a gush. That being said, if you want to try out squirting with your vibrator, there are some things you can do to prepare yourself and increase the odds of success.
Start by getting aroused and putting yourself in a sensual mood. This can be as simple as lighting some candles, turning on sexy music or a movie on Adam & Eve Plus, and getting yourself in the right headspace by minimizing distractions. This will help you to focus on pleasure and reduce any anxiety about messing up your bedding later.
Once you’re in the mood, put your toy in and start stimulating the G-spot. This is the key for a lot of people to first experience squirting, and can be done with a dildo, a bullet sex toy or even your fingers. As you stimulate the g spot, keep pushing, and don’t stop until you reach orgasm.
You may feel like you have to pee as you reach orgasm — this is a good thing! This feeling of needing to pee is related to the release of pleasure that your body experiences when you squirt. It can be very intense and can lead to some of the most pleasurable sex of your life.
