When used correctly, with plenty of lube and proper positioning, vibrators are safe for virgins. There is a possibility of hymen breakage, but there’s also a risk of injury when using any new toy.
There are so many sex toys on the market, from handheld massagers to internally-inserted dildos. Depending on your preferences, you might like buzzier options that emit high-pitched vibrations or rumbly ones that stimulate the outside and inside of the clitoris.
The Dame Pom
Pom, from Dame Products, is a flexible, waterproof vibe with a powerful, rumbly motor and five patterns. Its pliable body hug your curves while its soft, curved head delivers broad or targeted stimulation (and a lopsided grin). It’s perfect for use between two fingers, tucked into the clitoris, or holding by the base and pressing against it. It also works well with a tether for a secure, locked-in feel. It’s the perfect toy for partnered sex or solo pleasure. It requires a bit of maintenance but is a cinch to clean. It uses medical-grade silicone, is waterproof, and comes with a magnetic USB charger and storage bag. The price tag is $95 but it’s well worth it for this power-packed little toy.
Designed to mimic the body’s natural motion, Pom is discreet enough to bring with you anywhere and can be used in any position. It also has a notch on the top for pinpointing vibrations to the clitoris and features tactile, intuitive controls for a confusion-free experience.
Ho notes that while she loves the flexibility and feel of this vibe, it’s a little more upfront than some of the other vibrators she has. As a result, it might be best for those with some experience who know their sexy likes and dislikes. Still, if you’re looking for something to help you get started, look no further than this fun little vibrator.
The We-Vibe Moxie
If you are looking for a wearable vibrator that is quiet enough to enjoy without the interference of other people, then the Moxie is a great choice. This panty vibe is made from soft, body-safe silicone and has a discreet form factor that makes it easy to hide in your underwear. It also has a powerful motor that can give you orgasms that are as intense as you want them to be.
The Moxie has a battery that lasts for up to two hours, and it can be recharged in about 90 minutes. It also has a low-power alert that lets you know when it is getting low on power. Its waterproof design also allows you to use it in the shower or even swim with it.
The Moxie is an app-enabled toy, which means that you can control it remotely. This is a great feature for couples who are in long-distance relationships. All you need to do is download the We-Connect app and pair the Moxie with your phone. Once it is paired, you can control the device from anywhere that you have cell service. You can also control the intensity and frequency of the vibrations, as well as create and save custom patterns.
The Lelo Tiani 3
One of the most popular vibrators on the market, the Tiani is a powerful couple’s massager that delivers sublime pleasure. It has two motors working in harmony to enhance your partner’s sensations while stimulating your own. It comes with four default pleasure settings, which can be configured to your liking using the dedicated app.
This device features a smooth insertable arm that enters the vagina to deliver sensational vibrations, while an external arm stimulates the clitoris. The toy is waterproof, meaning you can enjoy it in the bath or even shower. Just remember to use plenty of water-based lubricant to enhance the experience.
The toy is easy to operate, with a simple remote control and intuitive interface. It’s also small enough to fit in your purse or pocket, making it ideal for discreet public play. The vibrations are intense, yet the toy isn’t noisy.
If the intensity is too much, you can turn it down via the remote. You can also adjust the clitoral stimulation arm’s width and position. Its shape is a bit square, so it might be better for someone with a broader clit.
You can pair it with a male partner for a dual-stimulation experience or use it solo for masturbation. The toy takes about 2 hours to charge fully, so make sure to recharge it before you need it for a session.
The PalmPower Recharge Wand Massage
The PalmPower wand massager line is beloved around the world, and its new cordless, USB rechargeable and waterproof version takes pleasure to even greater heights. This petite wand packs incredible power into just 7” and offers a simple incremental speed control so that you can find your perfect sweet spot.
Sunny adored how discreet this wand felt, a great choice for virgins who may want to play with erogenous zones such as the clitoris, nipples and breasts. She also loved the way the silicone attachments conducted vibrations perfectly, unlike other wands that muffle sensations.
It’s easy to use and clean, requiring nothing more than a little bit of water-based lube. The silicone cap pops off for a quick and easy clean with antibacterial soap or water, and you can also boil it to sanitize. It’s fully waterproof so it’s fine to take in the shower with you or bring it into the bath for a wet wild time.
This naughty little wand also comes with several interchangeable silicone head attachments that can be popped on and off for various sensations. This includes the PalmFinger designed for massaging the palm and fingers and a couple more for g-spot stimulation (PalmBelow) and clitoral stimulation (PalmDual). You can also purchase additional PalmSensual and PalmBody attachments with stimulating shapes and erogenous areas in mind including the nipples, arms and legs.