A vibrating cock ring is a fun addition to anal play. It tightens and traps blood flow in the penis, which can prolong an erection and even boost the intensity of orgasm.
They’re also great for clitoral stimulation. Just make sure you follow a few pro tips when using them.
Positioning
When a person gets aroused, blood flow to the penis increases, causing the shaft to swell or become “hard.” Cock rings work by restricting the return of blood from the tip of the penis, which keeps it hard and throbbing longer, according to Aleece Fosnight, MSPAS, PA-C, urology assistant and AASECT-certified sexuality counselor and educator.
To use a vibrating cock ring, first lubricate your cock and the ring, using a water-based lubricant (silicone-based lubes wear down silicone toys). Next, make sure that your cock is semi-erect; if it’s too flaccid, it won’t hold enough blood to keep the ring from becoming uncomfortable.
The ring should fit in snugly at the base of the shaft, or on your testicles (if you’re using a double cock ring). You can try the missionary position — where the penetrator sits on top, and the recipient leans back and straddles their partner — or any other position that works for both partners to grind and rock against each other. The clitoris is another great place for a cock ring to stimulate, and some models have a slick, removable insert that makes them clitoral-friendly.
Whenever possible, use your cock ring in combination with a condom to practice safe sex. But remember to put the cock ring on before you roll your condom, to avoid ripping it.
Lubrication
When using a cock ring, it’s important to use plenty of lube. Applying lube to both the cock ring and your penis will make it easier to slip on, and also prevent any uncomfortable friction if the ring shifts around during sex. It’s also a good idea to trim any pubic hair, as this will help the ring stay put during sex without tugging at your sensitive areas.
Cock rings are more than just sex toys; they actually work by restricting blood flow to the shaft, making it harder and hotter for longer. This helps people with erectile dysfunction maintain an erection during sex, and is why many people find them pleasurable.
In addition to using a cock ring, you can also use a vibrator or even a butt plug to enhance your sensations during intimate activities with your partner. Just be sure to discuss these alternatives with your partner and get their consent before trying any new sex toys.
In general, cock rings are best worn when the penis is flaccid or semi-erect, according to sex expert Antonia Hall in an interview with Cosmopolitan. This allows the ring to slide on smoothly and gives you time to stimulate the shaft with your hands or other toy before sexual activity begins. As with all sex toys, cock rings should be cleaned thoroughly after each use to avoid the spread of bacteria and STIs.
Getting Started
For beginners, cock rings are an easy way to get started with vibrating sex toys. You can choose from a variety of styles, including those that fit around the base of the penis or below the scrotum. You can also find ones that have an attachment for clitoral stimulation, perineum massagers or remote-controlled disco lights (great for turning Tuesday night sex into a warehouse party). Whatever you decide to use, always lubricate both the ring and your penis before you put it on to make it easier to slide on and remove. Lubrication enhances the sensation and also makes it more comfortable if you need to shift the cock ring from one side of your body to the other during sex.
Cock rings work by restricting blood flow to the penis once it becomes erect, which can lead to stronger orgasms for some people and help those with erectile dysfunction. However, the restricted flow of blood can lead to pain and discomfort after a while if you wear it for too long, which is why it’s important to listen to your body and take the cock ring off before you feel uncomfortable.
Most cock rings come with a release button or snap-fasteners for easy removal. If not, you can use scissors to cut the ring from your penis, although this is a risky method that could damage the toy or your penis. It’s recommended that you only wear a cock ring for up to 30 minutes, and that you remove it immediately if it starts to swell, hurt or feel numb.
Taking Off
When using a vibrating cock ring, be sure to use lots of water-based lube. If the cock ring is adjustable, have your partner get on top so they can grind and press against it. It’s usually more fun to use the cock ring that way because it gives the person on top complete control over the level of pressure they put on the clitoris.
Cock rings enhance penetration by restricting the flow of blood that causes an erection. This can make them feel harder than a regular erection, and they’re great for people with a hard time getting and maintaining an erection.
Most cock rings are meant to be put on before you’ve got an erection, but there are some that can be stretched over the penis while it’s flaccid. Either way, lube the outside and inside of the ring before stretching it over the penis to prevent pulling your pubic hair or pinching your testicles.
Cock rings are also great for masturbation and clitoral stimulation. They’re easy to use and give a nice, intense buzz. If you’re sensitive to clitoral stimulation or have a condition like a weakened clitoris, try starting out with one of the smaller vibrating cock rings, such as the Lovehoney Ignite Vibrating Cock Ring, so you can figure out how much pressure you’re comfortable with.
